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  Contents

  Cover

  Title Page

  Copyright

  Dedication

  Acknowledgments

  Introduction

  Chapter 1: The Cycle of Dictatorships and Revolutions

  Chapter 2: Why Islamic Revolutions Are Doomed to Fail

  Chapter 3: A Muslim's Burden: How Islam Fails the Individual

  Exaggeration, Lying, and Slander

  Embarrassment in Translating the Koran

  Vengeance

  Minding One's Business

  Reforming Others, Rather than Oneself

  Blaming Others

  The Sin of Admitting Sin

  Redemption in Islam

  Fear of “Torment of the Grave”

  Believing in Two Opposite Views at the Same Time

  Criminalization of Love and Beauty

  Distrust of Novelty and the Other

  Empathy and Compassion

  The Duty of Protecting Mohammed's Honor

  Chapter 4: Israel amid Islamic Tornadoes

  Chapter 5: Exodus: The Rise of Islamic Apostasy

  Chapter 6: Will the Arab Spring Usher In a Feminist Movement?

  Chapter 7: Western Vulnerability

  Chapter 8: House of Cards: The Downfall of Islam as We Know It

  Conclusion

  Notes

  Index

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  Darwish, Nonie.

  The devil we don’t know: the dark side of revolutions in the Middle East/Nonie Darwish. –1

  p. cm.

  Includes index.

  ISBN 978-1-118-13339-2 (cloth); ISBN 978-111-8-19789-9 (ebk); ISBN 978-111-8-19790-5 (ebk); ISBN 978-111-8-19791-2 (ebk)

  1. Middle East–Politics and government–21st century. 2. Revolutions–Middle East. 3. Islam and politics–Middle East. 4. Democratization–Middle East. I. Title.

  DS63.18.D37 2012

  956.05′4–dc23

  2011042288

  To Mohammed and Mohammed, two talented young men who left Islam, but are unable to escape the hell of the Islamic state

  Acknowledgments

  I want to thank my three children for their smiles, love, and support. I especially want to thank my many friends in the Middle East, who kept me informed and inspired me with their courage and convictions.

  I also thank my agent, Lynne Rabinoff, for her advice and professionalism.

  I am very grateful to my editor Hana Lane, who brought out the best in what I wrote, and, of course, to my publisher, John Wiley and Sons, and all of the staff there for their talent and care.

  Introduction

  Revolutions across the Middle East are rapidly unraveling before our eyes, telling us the sad truth that Islamic uprisings eventually crawl back to where they came from—back to tyranny. If anyone has any doubt as to the negative dynamics of sharia (the religious law of Islam) and its subversive effect on society, all that person needs to do is study Islamic revolutions and why they eventually fail to achieve their goals of freedom and democracy. If you believe that sharia is a harmless religious law that Muslims have the right to practice wherever they go, I advise you to take a front seat and watch the drama unfold. The reason Islamic revolutions end in failure is because sharia forbids freedom of speech and religion, as well as gender equality and religious equality, and will remove any ruler from office if he refuses to conduct jihad and advocates peace with non-Muslim nations.

  Months after the revolution in Egypt, Tahrir Square is still full of rage, anger, and divisiveness, with huge crowds that are still demanding democracy. On July 29, 2011, secularists, who are the minority, planned a sit-in called “Friday of Popular Will and Unification” when they were overwhelmed by tens of thousands of Muslim Brotherhood and Salafi groups, who called the event “Sharia Friday” and demanded an Islamic state.

  Chants were heard: “Obama, Obama—we are all Osama.” A large poster read “You are in our hearts and we will never forget you” and showed photos of Osama bin Laden; Hamas Shaikh Ahmad Yassin; the Libyan fighter Omar Mukhtar; the founder of the Muslim Brotherhood, Hassan al-Banna; the leader of the Brotherhood who was assassinated by President Abdel Nasser, Sayyid Qutb; and the blind man Shaikh Omar Abdel Rahman, who is being held in a U.S. prison. The square was full of Saudi flags symbolizing the Islamist state under Allah and the Islamic sword.

  While most nations around the world have realized the failures of theocracy, many Muslims around the world are still carrying signs with the Muslim Brotherhood slogan “Islam is the solution.” This catchy phrase appeals to the Muslim masses, who have never learned the difference between religion and the political system, and whose votes in the coming elections across the Middle East will decide what kind of political system they will live under. If the slogan carries the day, any secular democracy movement in Cairo or other Arab capitals will be left at the mercy of the pro-sharia majority.

  The trend in the Muslim world is toward restoring Allah's law as a political solution, to create the perfect Islamic state that many dream of and that never actually existed. In almost all Muslim countries that have freedom movements today, the constitutions are sharia-based, making it an act of apostasy to attempt to remove sharia from the future constitutions. Not one demonstrator in the streets of Cairo carried a sign asking
for the removal of sharia from the new constitution of Egypt's future government, a government that people expect to miraculously bring them freedom and democracy.

  The fourteen-hundred-year history of Islam tells us that Muslims have no confidence in secular government. The banner “Islam is the solution” itself holds democracy in contempt. The questions that Arab revolutionaries today must ask themselves include: Are Muslims confident and secure enough in their faith and its survival to stop requiring the government and the legal system to enforce Islam under penalty of death? Why do Muslims not dare remove sharia from their constitutions? Why do they dread letting go of total control of every aspect of a Muslim's life and the institutions that govern him? What is behind their fears and insecurity? What forces them to rely on government and not on the freedom of the Muslim individual to choose?

  The purpose of this book is not simply to criticize Islam or point out Islam's failures in order to tear it down. First and foremost, I want to explain what lies behind the revolutions in the Middle East and to expose Islam for what it is: a belief system that will inevitably doom those revolutions. Islam and its sharia cannot coexist with freedom and democracy.

  This book is also a plea for Muslims to face the truth as a first step toward fulfilling the aspirations of the young Muslim demonstrators all over the Middle East who are risking their lives and shedding their blood for freedom. It is a plea to take responsibility for Islam's bloody confrontation with non-Muslims and nations around the world. Muslims who truly love their religion and who want it to survive and thrive will put aside their pride and shame, lay down their guns, and honestly acknowledge the plight and challenges of Islam today, not only for themselves, but also for the rest of the world. Redemption, asking for forgiveness, and evolving to a better self are values that apply to everyone, every religion and ideology, if they are to stand the test of time. Islam and Muslims are no exception, and the whole world will stand in support of such a movement. In fact, this has already happened; we have seen people around the world praying for the success of the oppressed Muslim demonstrators across the Middle East. I, for one, wept with pride for my people and my culture of origin. Muslims who are willing to stand up and admit their imperfections to themselves and the world have nothing to fear. That is the most positive, constructive, and honorable thing Muslims can do today.

  This book will not determine whether Islam can be reformed; only Muslims themselves can make that choice. Yet I will lay out the challenge that Muslims must take up to bring into being a much-needed reformation movement. Based on the truth, this movement must reject old patterns of behavior, such as denial, making excuses, finger-pointing, and a deep fear of being exposed to shame. Without welcoming the truth, any reformation of Islam will be doomed to failure. For Muslims to continue with the status quo will waste the heroic efforts of young Muslims who shed their blood in Tahrir Square and other countries in the Middle East. Insisting, as the Islamists do, that Islam's enormous problems are simply due to misinterpretation and misunderstanding will not save Muslims and the rest of the world from future bloody confrontations. This juvenile attitude will only exasperate Muslims and non-Muslims alike.

  Most people, myself included, don't want to criticize any religion, let alone the religion they were born into. Religion must be, first and foremost, a personal relationship with God. Yet if people acting in the name of religion expand its sphere of control until their country becomes a one-party totalitarian state, then these coreligionists have overstepped their bounds. If this state preserves an elaborate legal system that can put someone to death for disagreeing with sharia, then it is trampling on the human rights of its citizens. If this state has a military mandate called jihad that violates the sovereignty of non-Muslim countries, then Islam is no longer a private matter, immune from criticism. Islam placed itself in the realm of criticism the day it demanded to become a political system with imperialist aspirations. If an ideology, religious or secular, has assumed for itself such totalitarian rights over others, then others have the right to challenge, discredit, and defeat it.

  Islam is challenging the world but has made it a crime for others to challenge it. This book will challenge Islam, not for the purpose of shaming Muslims, but to expose the truth and encourage reformation. Having seen for ourselves what Islam has done to the lives and the political systems of Muslim countries, we who live in free democracies have a duty to criticize and scrutinize Islam. If our criticism inspires Muslims to reform, then it will have achieved an honorable goal.

  As it is practiced today, Islam is the problem, not the solution.

  1

  The Cycle of Dictatorships and Revolutions

  When I look back on my university days in Tahrir (Liberty) Square in the center of downtown Cairo, I remember a space and a time very different from the revolutionary scene that mesmerized the world on January 25, 2011. As a student, I often walked along the dusty and poorly paved sidewalks that led to the American University in Cairo, which is located on one of its corners. All around me were thousands of Egyptians, arriving from the surrounding suburbs and going in different directions. They bumped into one another and rarely apologized, because there was no way to avoid getting in the way of other people. The pedestrian was, and still is, responsible for jumping out of the way of cars. Even in the center of Cairo, roads are not designed for traffic. Traffic signals are scarce, and, where they do exist, they are ignored.

  The traffic situation was bad then and is much worse now that the population of Egypt has more than doubled. In my student days, I could not avoid being rubbed against, bumped into, and even groped or pinched by sexually frustrated men who seemed to seize every opportunity for physical contact whenever a woman was alone without a man. It was a constant reminder of a women's place in the Islamic state: the home.

  Those were the oppressive days of another dictator, Gamal Abdel Nasser. Unlike 2011, in the late 1960s people did not demonstrate to get rid of a dictator, but rather to keep him in power. After Egypt's humiliating defeat by Israel in the 1967 war, when Nasser resigned from office, Egyptians took to the streets to bring him back, fearful of letting go of their “daddy” dictator, even if he might lead them off a cliff to defeat and tyranny. The Egyptian people have come a long way since then.

  Tahrir Square today has become a landmark of Egypt's January 25th revolution, which ousted the thirty-year rule of Hosni Mubarak. The world was on edge as it watched the developments of the Middle East uprisings with empathy and hope for a people yearning for freedom. The images on TV were riveting, inspirational, and a reminder to everyone of the power of the human spirit when confronted with repression. I saw a new generation of young Egyptians with V-signs who painted their faces with the color of the Egyptian flag, much as Westerners often do at sports events. The appeal of Western popular culture remains strong in the Middle East, despite the constant anti-Western propaganda. Having lived for thirty years in Egypt, I could almost read the minds of those people, starving for freedom and dignity in the Cairo streets. They wanted to reach out to the West and cry, “Help us, we want freedoms like yours!” Many protesters were eager to speak to Western journalists and carried posters with sayings in English such as “Game Over” specifically to communicate with the West.

  With youthful passion, protesters charged into the streets, telling their loved ones, “I won't come back.” They were ready to die in that square to end centuries of oppression and achieve the freedom that most people in the West take for granted. My heart went out to my countrymen as I watched them risk their lives to confront guns and tanks of their own military and police, aimed against them. A feeling of pride dominated my mixed emotions when I saw Egyptians finally say no to a chronic state of enslavement under oppressive dictatorships and police states. Then the unique spirit of the Egyptian people truly blossomed when the military chose to stand by the people and guard the welfare of the nation.

  Even though Mubarak was a dictator and had a hard time letting go, to
his credit he had the decency not to use the full power of his military and police, as other dictators in Iran, Libya, and Syria have done against protesters in the streets. Mubarak also refused to leave Egypt, subjecting himself to be tried or executed. The Mubarak family has been put under house arrest, and Mubarak and his two sons are in jail, awaiting trial and facing execution if they are found guilty. It is a tragedy on all levels and is the ugly side of revolutions.

  All of the various factions, Islamists, socialists, intellectuals, Christians, and ordinary Arabs on the street had one thing in common: they all wanted to oust the dictator. Even though the revolution seemed spontaneous, every group, especially Islamists, has talked about the removal of all Arab dictators for several decades. Calls to depose Mubarak and others were openly expressed at many Muslim events in the West. To the Islamist, Muslim leaders in power were not Muslim enough, because they obstructed the Islamists' demands for a pure Islamic state. Young reformists and certain intellectuals with a passion for Western-style democracy thought their leaders were not democratic enough. Christians believed they were discriminated against and that Mubarak did nothing to protect them. As for the ordinary man on the street, he was simply fed up with thirty years of dictatorship.

  The West, in large part, has misunderstood what happened and why. The crux of the misunderstanding has been a description of the regimes of Hosni Mubarak, Bashar al-Assad, Sadam Hussein, and others as secular, when in reality they were not. Many of these dictators did come from a military background, and their wives did not wear Islamic clothes. Yet some, in their youth, had been members of the Muslim Brotherhood—for example, Gamal Abdel Nasser and Anwar El Sadat. No Muslim leader in the Middle East can get away with truly secular rule or even survive one day in office if he rejects Islamic law. It was during Mubarak's rule in 1991 that Egypt signed the Cairo Declaration for Human Rights, which declared that sharia, the divine law of Islam, supersedes any other law. So, even though sharia is not applied 100 percent in Egypt, Syria, Iraq, Jordan, or Tunisia, it is officially the law of the land. Mubarak, like all Muslim leaders, had to appease the Islamists to avoid their wrath. In fact, according to sharia, a Muslim head of state has to rule by Islamic law and preserve Islam in its original form or he must be removed from office. Islamic law leaves no choice for any Muslim leader but to accept, at least officially, that sharia is the law of the land. Otherwise, he will be ousted by the mob, which is commanded by sharia to remove any leader who is not a Muslim. Because of that law, Muslim leaders must play a game of appearing Islamic and anti-West, while trying to get along with the rest of the world. It's a game with life-or-death consequences.